Thursday, June 25, 2015

1 year with Micah

Micah has been home for 1 year!  We are so blessed for the gift that he is to our family.  It is amazing to see the transformation that he has made in one year.  Overall, he is doing well.

Micah's first year in our family has been full of so many "firsts" that we have documented in the blog.  Here are a few highlights from the year.

- He completed his first year of preschool.  We are working with the school district to get him the best care and transition when he goes to kindergarten in the Fall.  We would appreciate prayers as we navigate the school system.

-His English has come along way.  He is mostly fluent, although there are still times of misunderstanding.

-His health has been stable.  We are grateful that the surgeries he had in China were done well and helped minimize the damage to his body.  With that being said, we will be seeking a second opinion on his treatments in a couple of weeks.  We are hopeful to gain more understanding of his diagnosis.

-He loves to play video games.  He also enjoys swimming and playing soccer.

- His favorite foods include chicken, rice, dumplings, macaroni and cheese, pancakes, and breakfast sausage.  This boy can eat!

-He has grown a lot! He has gained 11 pounds and grown 4 1/2 inches.  He has gone from a size 24 months to 4T.  His shoe size grew three sizes too!

We are so thankful that God took us around the world to give us a son.  It seems that Micah has always been a part of our family.

One month home vs. One year home




 First day of school vs. Last day of school


Crossing the bridge to kindergarten (Please excuse the blurry picture.)


"I'm a boy that likes playdoh. I love to sing with Mr. Schultz.  He's a good guy."


First t-ball season



Two different leagues...same team name, same number.


Checking out the new Peoria Playhouse




Thursday, June 18, 2015

Hannah is 3!

It has been a while since we posted!  We have been busy!  Be on the look out for a couple new posts.  First up...Hannah is 3!

Last week, Hannah turned 3!  We also celebrated her being home for one month.  Time is flying by quickly and it is hard to imagine our life without her.  She is sweet and spicy.  She is pretty mellow compared to our other kids.  She loves to play and explore.  She is very girly!  She loves to accessorize with bracelets, necklaces and fancy clothes.  She likes to carry her back pack and Curious George around wherever she goes.  She is growing in her likeness of American foods, although she still loves her Chinese treats and milk.  She is a joy and we are blessed to call her our daughter.

We have begun her medical evaluations and have seen several doctors in Peoria and Chicago.  There are still many unknowns medically.  We ask for prayers of clarity and wisdom for any necessary interventions.

Now, what you have been waiting for...pictures!  Enjoy!



Our China guide introduced Hannah to Doritos...she LOVES them!


Meeting Papa and Grandma Candice


She wanted Papa to put in many pony tails.











Swimming at Papa's pool


DeSimone family first birthday party tradition.  The "Name Cake."




The birthday girl ready to celebrate!






She loved being sung to.




From 2 to 7 grandchildren in 14 months!


Hannah loves her new bitty baby.


She has been a trooper at all of her medical appointments.


Monday, May 25, 2015

One week at home with Hannah

We have been home for just over a week.  We are enjoying the extra day together on Memorial Day as we gratefully remember those who served our country.  We know many of you have questions, so here are the answers to recently asked questions.

How is Hannah doing?
Hannah is doing very well.  She is a very sweet girl with a smile to light up a room.  She has had minimal tantrums since we arrived home and have had a consistent schedule.  She is sleeping great in the room that she shares with Claire.  
She seems to be growing in her understanding of the English language already.  She is still speaking her local dialect quite often, but we get by with a few known phrases and some sign language.  Her voice is so cute, we just want to bottle it up!  We know she will not speak her native language for long.  She has learned one English word.  "Hello!"  Matt has also been working on "ball" and "up".
She is still pretty picky with her food choices.  She loves carbs and watermelon!  We also found a new favorite...corn on the cob!  We are working on getting her to eat meat and drink milk.  We are thankful that the local Asian Market sells shelf-stable milk.  Who wouldn't like sugary milk?!    
We have found that she loves to swing on the swing set.  She also likes to play dolls, magna-tiles, and kitchen.  When she doesn't get her way she will walk off and pout in a corner until she gets what she wants.
She is quite the character.  She loves to be the center of attention.  She is quick to get everyone's attention at the table.  She makes a fake sneeze, "A Choo!"  The kids love it!  It is her best trick.  

How are the kids with Hannah?
Nathan, Micah and Claire love their little sister, mei mei.  She is quite the novelty.  They love to lead her around and show her new things.  They enjoy playing with her and making her laugh.  Claire loves to have a room mate.  She is a great older sister, jie jie. Nathan likes to make funny faces with her.  He thinks, "she is so cute!"  Micah is wanting to play with Hannah all by himself.  He is liking her sweet milk and treats from China.  He also enjoys one of her toys that plays Chinese songs.  All of the kids were excited to show her off at school.

Is Micah related to Hannah and from the same orphanage?
Micah and Hannah are not from the same orphanage.  They are from different regions of China.  Micah and Hannah are not blood relatives, but are now siblings by God's amazing design.

Can Micah communicate with Hannah?
Micah is unable to communicate with Hannah in her native language.  Their cities have different dialects.  Micah no longer speaks or understands his native language.  It is very common for adoptive children to lose their native language quite quickly.  We anticipate that Hannah will lose her native language even sooner than Micah did based on her age and limited vocabulary.

How are we (Matt and Deanna) doing?
We are doing good.  Matt has been off work, so that has helped during our transition.  We are grateful that we are just about caught up on our sleep and back into the central time zone.  Jet lag was horrible!  We have stayed home most of the week.  We have gone to a few appointments and the kids' activities.

Hannah did well at her initial visit with the pediatrician. She was a trooper for her blood draw.  She didn't shed a single tear while at the doctor's office!  On June 1st she will have a sedated MRI.  We will go to Children's Memorial in Chicago on June 17th to establish care with neurology.  We would love for you to pray that Hannah does well with the MRI.  We also ask for prayers of wisdom and clarity for the doctors caring for Hannah.

We thank you for all your prayers so far.  We know that your prayers have been heard and answered by our sovereign God.  He deserves all the glory for the wonderful transition that Hannah has had so far.  We realize that Hannah has not been a part of our family for long.  We trust that God will hold her and comfort her as she adjusts and grieves.  God's grace is a gift we are so thankful to receive.  We pray that Hannah will learn and grow in her knowledge of our Savior, Jesus.  It is through Him that we have eternal life and forgiveness of our sins.

Do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?  We would love to share with you the power of the cross and how you can also be adopted into God's family.  In fact, you don't have to travel all of the way from China to the U.S. to join the family.  All you need to do is accept Jesus as your lord and savior.  We'd love to tell you how.


At the park with Mama and Baba while the big kids were at school


First s'more roast of the season.  It was no surprise that Hannah loved this sweet treat.


Cheering on Nathan at baseball.  She is also sporting her first pony tail and pig tails.



Mmm...corn on the cob!  She had two pieces that night.



A glimpse of Chinese culture

We wanted to share some pictures that did not make it into our other posts.  We tried to take pictures that would show the Chinese culture and way of living.  It is so hard to capture in pictures.  The smells, the people, the congestion...the list goes on.  Just like our visits to other countries, no words or pictures could fully give you a picture of the culture.  China will always have a special place in our hearts.


We arrived on Labor Day weekend.  There were many fireworks!  All. day. long!  This was a firework cage in the parking lot of our hotel.  There were many weddings that day as well.


A typical apartment building with laundry hanging to dry.



 The scooter is a popular mode of transportation.


Many people prepare their food right on the street.  We even saw a woman preparing a whole chicken right on the sidewalk.



Some pictures from our visits to the grocery store.






Eggs are not refrigerated.


Rice bins


These animal hides were being sold outside of McDonald's by our hotel. Yes, that is a dog!