Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Maelee is HOME!

Maelee busted out of the hospital today!  We are thankful to be home!  The team worked on increasing her feeds overnight, so that we could go home today.  Thankfully Maelee tolerated them well and we were homeward bound.  Now we need to find our new normal.  Between the feeding, cathing and medicine schedule---there is a lot to do!  Home health came this afternoon to train Deanna on how to administer the IV medication.  They also made sure we had all of the needed supplies for Maelee's g-tube and cathing.  It will take some time to get used to all the steps for each task.
We are thankful to all be under one roof.  We are looking forward to spending the rest of the week at home with no schedule!  Thank you for all of your prayers.  We are so thankful to our prayer warriors. Also, thank you to everyone that has provided meals, gift cards and childcare. You are a blessing!

All clean and ready to go!

One last time hanging out in her favorite spot by the window.


Home!

Sunday, November 20, 2016

Weekend Report

Thank you for praying for Maelee's breathing during surgery recovery.  Deanna got very little sleep Friday night.  Maelee continued to be lazy with her breathing and had to be reminded with a nudge several times throughout the night.  The team was called in when was she was making Deanna nervous.  Praise god she never needed medical intervention.  

Saturday we worked hard to keep her pain managed.  She was pretty irritable, but seemed comfortable as far as pain goes.  She was acting hungry.  What a surprise from a girl who had a g-tube placed for lack of eating!  Unfortunately, she was not allowed to eat yesterday while the g-tube healed.  In the afternoon, she was started on feeds through her tube.  She continues to get the start-up dose Sunday night.  We are hoping that they will advance her feeds tomorrow.  

Matt stayed at the hospital Saturday night while Deanna got a brief break from the hospital.  Qiao Qiao loves spending time with her baba (daddy)!  Deanna brought the kids and dinner on Sunday night for shift change.  Deanna is back at her post.  

The plan is for Tuesday discharge.  Tomorrow should be a day full of lots of learning for Deanna.  We also need to get answers about all the behind the scenes work of case management.  We need to get supplies delivered so we are ready to care for Maelee at home.  Although it would be great to be home soon, we don't want to be home without out all of the needed supplies or the home care plan in place.

Thanks for praying!

Maelee enjoyed sitting on the couch Saturday, but getting there with all these cords was an adventure!

The kids enjoyed a date with mom at Sweet CeCe's.

Grandma and Grandpa Marquette came to meet Maelee.
Sorry, Papa and Grandma Candice!  Mom forgot to get a picture of your visit.  
The kids have loved their visits from grandparents this week!




Saturday, November 19, 2016

Surgery Day

Maelee had surgery today.  The g-tube and muscle biopsy were done as planned.  Her dental work was quite extensive with four teeth extractions and 12 caps placed.  She has been pretty irritable and mad since the surgery.  Rightfully so!  She has also been lazy with her breathing.  Please pray that she continues to breathe well.  She has given me some scares!  Thank you for praying for our girl!

Pre-surgery pampering

All clean!

Being a helper with the blood pressure cuff

Thank you Pastor Jerry for stopping by and praying during surgery.

All done!

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Isolation

At 12:30am I was informed that Maelee's urine culture came back with an antibiotic resistant bacteria.  Therefore, we are now in contact isolation.  Fun!  Thankfully they are allowing me to be at the bedside without a gown and wear gloves during diaper changes.  I was worried about this last night.  I did not want Maelee to think that I turned into one of "them."  I want her to know and trust that I am here to stay.  I am her mama.  I can be trusted.  Please pray that the new IV antibiotic they started will take care of this urinary tract infection.  At this point it will be a ten day course of treatment.  They are hoping to send us home early next week, so the tentative plan is to go home with the picc line in place and give the rest of the IV antibiotics at home.

Today we had visits from some new people on the team.  First was the early wake up call from general surgery.  They went over the g-tube placement that will happen tomorrow.  Next, we met developmental rehab.  This new doctor was quite overwhelming!  By the time she left, she planned to change every treatment plan and add several new specialties.  This was quite shocking!  Later, the general pediatric team came around and smoothed everything over. We agreed that we need to address the acute needs so that we can get home.  There are therapies and equipment needs that will be addressed outpatient.  Lastly, we met with genetics.  They are planning to get some biopsies during surgery and possibly some additional labs.  They are looking to rule out a genetic cause to the paralysis and any progressive diseases.

Although it has been a challenge to start off our time in the hospital, it has been a blessing.  Tonight I had the opportunity to share our adoption testimony with our night nurses.  It is joy to share about our faith in Christ and God's beautiful orchestration of our family.  We pray that we will continue to have opportunities to glorify God.  I was reminded of shining a light for Jesus in my Bible reading today.  "While I am in the world, I am the light of the world," John 9:5.  May we let His light SHINE!

Tomorrow Maelee will have surgery around 2pm.  She will have the g-tube placement, dental work, and a muscle biopsy.  That is at least the plan for now.  There is still some coordination going on among the teams.  Tomorrow morning we will have a final plan.  Pray that the surgery will go well.  Pray for skilled hands and wisdom for the doctors.  Pray for Maelee.  Pray for minimal pain, continued trust, and understanding.

Thank you for continuing to walk this journey with us.  We would not be here without our supportive village.

Maelee loves to eat together. "Mama!"  She points to the chair for me to sit.  It is our new little tradition to have our meals sitting next to each other.  See the milk---she drank 9 sips!  Breaking records over here today!

Enjoying the smiles! :)


Her cheezy smile kills us!

Full of kisses tonight!



Wednesday, November 16, 2016

More of the same...

Today started with one eye open and transport standing in the room.  "We are here to take you for the GI study."  Umm...news to me!  I knew it was ordered, but did not know when it was scheduled.  I even asked our night nurse if she knew and she was unaware.  Despite my displeasure of not being notified, off we went for a GI study at 7am.  Thankfully, the study went fairly quickly and we made it back to the room by 8am.  Matt came to relieve me for an hour while I attended Muffins with Mom at Hannah's school.  It was a sweet time together with my momma's girl.

Today we continued to work on eating and drinking.  She still will not drink!  She took five sips of milk today (praise!) and that is all.  Eating is getting better.  She had a new favorite food today...pizza!  Who would have guessed?!  Micah and Hannah are still warming up to this American staple.

The plan right now is that Maelee's surgery for the g-tube and dental work will be Friday.  If those go as planned, the team is hoping for Tuesday discharge.  We are praying sooner rather than later!

Tonight we were blessed with a meal from the Marmon Family.  Thank you for providing delivery to the hospital.  We enjoyed our first family meal since being admitted!



Pizza...yum!!

Trip to the play room

Family meal courtesy of the Marmon Family
Thank you!

Proof that Maelee took a sip of milk 
It was short lived!

Tuesday, November 15, 2016

Night 9

In case you are counting, tonight with be our 9th night in the hospital.  We never imagined an ER visit to turn into a hospital marathon.  As frustrating and inconvenient in can be, we are so blessed!  We are still in awe of the amazing care and numerous specialties that are evaluating Maelee.  We are thankful that all of the specialties can work together and more efficiently while inpatient.  We are also thankful for the wonderful support we are receiving from people with childcare, meals, and prayers.  Thank you!

Today was fairly uneventful.  We never left the room!  We continued working on eating and drinking.  The eating department is going slightly better.  The drinking not so much.  Three sips today!  That.is.all.  Speech therapy is doing feeding therapy to help with eating but they are stumped as to why she won't drink ANYTHING!

Pediatric surgery consulted with us today to discuss the g-tube placement.  We were a bit weary about jumping to a g-tube, but it now seems to be the best option to get home.  Home is a great place to be!  The surgery team is going to try and coordinate as many procedures they can while Maelee is under general anesthesia.  They are particularly working to get dentistry involved.  Her teeth are very bad with a large amount of decay.  We assumed we would take care of her teeth at some point, but minimizing the number of times under anesthesia would be great.  Another blessing along this hospital journey---even if it is just a thought!

Thank you for your continued prayers.  We know that God has got this!

The crazies came to visit!





Thank you Thuong for providing a meal and Nathan's favorite food group: Reddi Whip!!

Monday, November 14, 2016

Eating and Drinking is the job!

Deanna took over for the weekday shift late Sunday afternoon.  Maelee loves her Baba and had a great time playing with him.  Since Sunday night, we are working on her eating and drinking.  She is currently being tube fed.  We are trying to encourage her to eat.  She is being very picky!  She fits right in with our picky family!  Although she did eat a few things today, she is drinking very little.  She needs to eat and drink!  The doctors have recommended that she get a g-tube placed later this week so that we can give her tube feeds at home.  There are pros and cons to this scenario.  We will keep you posted with the final decision soon.

This morning Maelee had her hospital tour.  First, we headed to CT scan.  She was able to sit still without sedation!  Yay!  The CT scans done last week did not include her cervical spine (neck), so that was done to have a complete set from brain to tail bone.  Later, we went down to ultrasound.  Maelee has a large fatty cyst on her back.  No one has ever been concerned about it.  It was imaged today to confirm there are no worries.

Maelee was successful in having several bowel movements this afternoon.  Praise!  Prayerfully, the current bowel regimen will be successful at home to avoid constipation.  

Thank you for your continued prayers!  We appreciate everyone that is pitching in with childcare and meals.  We are blessed!

Working on self-feeding

Play-doh is fun!


Sunday, November 13, 2016

Ladies and Gentleman, We Have Blastoff (and internet)

Today is Sunday and Matt was finally able to get the internet to work at the hospital!  Hopefully, we can have more regular updates now.  Thank you to everyone for your concern and checking in on us.

On Saturday morning, Maelee was started on some medication to loosen her stool and get her to go.   AND GO SHE DID.  Conveniently, Deanna chose Saturday for her day off and Matt got to take over diaper changing duties.  Nine diapers and two sets of bed sheets later, and Maelee was cleaned out.  
Maelee fell asleep at 2PM and didn't wake up until 6:15AM Sunday morning.  Wow!  That must have been some powerful stuff.  During the day on Saturday, we had a number of visitors.  Grandma Candice, the kids, and Pastor Jerry came by to say hello.  Matt stayed the night in the hospital so Deanna could get a night off and spend some time with the kiddos.



On Sunday morning, Maelee woke up happy and hungry!  Have you ever heard of that combination before?  We gave her two bananas, an entire orange, and some orange JELLO.  Yum!  After that, she got back to stirring the cup with the spoon (her favorite pastime) and watching Disney Channel.  Around 10AM we even went for a walk and checked out the play room.



Forcing a smile

Play time in bed!

Ready for a walk in the red wagon

Maelee loved playing puzzles and ball!

The plan for today is to stop the stool loosening medication, take out the catheter, and start her on Pediasure through the feeding tube.  She is definitely making good progress.  Deanna plans to come to the hospital later today and switch over with Matt.  Thank you for your prayers!

She still is not drinking any water, so please pray for that!  We really need to her to drink.

Friday, November 11, 2016

News From the Home Front

Twenty minutes away, Matt has been doing his best to hold down the fort.  As you can imagine, not only are we struggling to get through the day ahead, but we also are struggling to catch up ... on sleep, on laundry, on homework, etc.  Our daily schedule has consisted of Matt getting the kids ready and off to school, driving to work, working for 5-6 hours, driving home, getting the kids off the bus, driving to the hospital to visit mom and Maelee, eating at the hospital or grabbing a bite on the way, driving back home, and then off to bed.  We have made the decision that Maelee will not be left alone without Matt or Deanna in the room, so that has made things a little more complicated.

You may ask ... "how do you do it?"  The answer is "God has been providing lots of help".  Thank you to all of our brothers and sisters in Christ who have stepped up to help us over the last week.  My short list of "thank yous" are below.  Everyone reading this blog needs to know that we could not do this alone, and we really appreciate everyone's help. 
  • Miss Tina - Driving Hannah to school in the morning and doing a load of the boys' laundry
  • The Marshall Family - Doing multiple loads of laundry for us.  Visiting us in the hospital and praying with us.
  • The Witte Family- Helping with fall yard clean up and doing multiple loads of laundry for us
  • Miss Ginger - Picking Hannah up from school, feeding her lunch, and watching her in the afternoon.
  • Grandma Candice - Watching the kids on Thursday night, all day Friday, cleaning house, and doing more laundry for us
  • People we don't even know who have blessed us with freezer meals
Thank you to our kids as well.  They have been doing their homework in the van to stay up on their school work and have even been pitching in with packing their own lunches in the morning.  Overall, they've kept their spirits up and enjoy visiting their sister whenever they can.  Go kids!

Highlights over the last week have included ...
  • Hannah started back at preschool this week with her new glasses.  Isn't she so cute?!  Hopefully we can keep the excitement level up for the next 4 months.
  • Deanna and Matt helped the kids put together a slideshow with some pictures of our trip.  The kids shared those with their classmates and really enjoyed doing it.  The best part was that we printed off pictures of their teachers before we left.  We then were able to take pictures in China with their teacher's face in it.  It ended up making the power point a Where's Waldo of sorts.
  • The older kids also got to bring in Skittles from China, some Chinese money, gifts for their teachers, and a Chinese hackey sack to play with.
  • All 4 kids got to enjoy some outdoor play time after school thanks to the mild weather we have had.  It was extra fun for them to jump and roll in all of the leaves outside.
  • On Thursday night, Matt got to take the boys to Buffalo Wild Wings for dinner.  Both Nathan and Micah had a free kids meal certificate for something good they did at school.  Micah especially loves eating "chicken on the bone", playing video games at the table, and watching sports on T.V.  It is a sensory paradise for him. 
  • After only getting 4 hours of sleep in 48 hours, Matt slept a full 8 hours on Wednesday night.  The kids slept the entire night as well which was a nice recharge for everyone at home.
  • Thanks to Grandma Candice being at home on Thursday night, Matt got to stay late at the hospital and play with Maelee when she woke up at 1AM on Friday.  It is always a joy to see her smile and laugh.
  • Dinner for 2 at the hospital for Matt and Deanna on Friday night.  Food was provided by Applebee's carside-to-go courtesy of the Boysen family.  We had a nice time together talking and typing up this blog post!
 
  • The part Matt ordered for the washing machine worked, and the washer is functional again.  The repair was a little bit harder than what they showed on YouTube, but God was gracious with us.  Matt was able to make the repair in under an hour and didn't get any injuries in the process.  Praise God for a working washer and for everyone who helped us stay afloat while it was broken down!

Long overdue update


Wednesday night 11/9/16
First, thank you to everyone that has messaged and called.  I apologize for not responding to all.  It is difficult to communicate with Matt, let alone everyone else.  There have been providers in our room all the time.  It is difficult to catch a breath.  Also, jet lag + hospital life = SO TIRED!!!!  With that said, here is what is going on so far.

We have shared previously that Maelee has lower limb paralysis.  During our time together (just over 2 weeks!), she did not have any bowel movements.  Upon our return to the US we contacted our pediatrician with our concern.  She directed us to the ER for evaluation of constipation.  Since Maelee’s medical history is unknown, the ER made the decision to admit Maelee to the hospital late Monday night.  We have been in investigation mode ever since. 

In addition to figuring out her constipation issues, the team is investigating her paralysis and bladder.  Many tests have been ordered and specialists consulted.  The major test that would provide many answers is a MRI of her brain and spine.  During a very frustrating trip down to the MRI unit, it was determined that x-rays would be required prior to the MRI.  The x-rays needed to rule out any potential metal in Maelee’s body since metal is not allowed in a MRI machine.  She does not have any surgical incisions, so there was no major concern.  To our surprise, Maelee has an implant in her heart.  The conclusion is that she had heart surgery as an infant.  Since there are no surgical records, we do not know if the implant is metal.  Therefore, a MRI cannot be performed at this time.  This is very disappointing because it is the best tool to assess her brain and spine.  This news came late Wednesday afternoon, so we are waiting to hear the new plan from the neurosurgery team.  We also requested that cardiology be involved to assess her heart.

Maelee has a very severe bladder infection.  It is believed that she is unable to fully empty her bladder due to her paralysis.  She has bacteria that are resistant to most antibiotics.  The infectious disease team has found one antibiotic that may kill this type of bacteria.  The new antibiotic was started Wednesday afternoon.  In addition, urology was consulted to discuss bladder management.  There will be testing tomorrow to test Maelee’s kidneys and bladder function in addition to assessing any damage.

Maelee continues to eat and drink very little.  Speech and dietary have been consulted to aid with these issues.  Also, physical therapy has been consulted to work on her core strength and maintain muscle flexibility.

One of Maelee’s x-rays suggests that she has hip dysplasia.  Additional imaging was done today and we are waiting to see orthopedics to discuss this issue.  It is likely that it will be a minimal issue for her because she does not bear any weight.

I may be forgetting something right now, but as you can see, there is a lot going on.  Please pray for wisdom for doctors.  Pray for Maelee to continue to build trust with us and her caregivers.  Pray that she will be less fearful with caregivers.  Pray the antibiotic will be effective to treat Maelee’s bladder infection.  Pray for Matt as he holds down the fort at home.  Pray for the kids as life is a bit crazy right now, and no schedule causes difficult behavior.  Pray for Deanna as she navigates and comprehends all of the issues at hand.  Also pray for rest and stamina for all.  

We are thankful that God has us here.  We expected Maelee’s medical evaluation to take months.  It is a blessing to have all of these specialties working together to care for our girl.  We are thankful for the opportunity to get her medical care as soon as possible.  God knows every hair on her head and all of her medical issues.  We pray that we will receive clarity with her diagnoses and be able to give her the best care possible.

Thank you for praying.  Thank you to everyone who is helping with our kids.  Thank you to everyone who has been checking in.  Thank you for blessing our family.  We are so grateful for all of you!




Thursday 11/10/16
At one point today there were 12 doctors in the room discussing Maelee’s plan of care.  What a blessing to have so many specialties coordinate together!  We have added neurology and neuro ophthalmology to her team.  These specialties were added because there is concern that her eyes are not tracking properly.  This may be the result of a brain abnormality.  Tomorrow, Maelee will have CT scans of her brain and spine under sedation.

Today she had ultrasounds of her kidneys, bladder and spine.  She also had an abdominal xray, echocardiogram and kidney function test. 

Cardiology came by today and discussed their findings.  Maelee does indeed have a PDA closure device in her heart.  The cardiologist was able to find the smallest, faintest, finest incision on her leg as the point of entry.  Right now the device is doing its job.  Her heart looks good currently.  The problem is that the device is in the right place but the wrong angle.  There is a chance that over time it may cause blockage of her aorta artery.  This is something that will be watched over time with routine visits to cardiology.  We are praying that no surgical intervention will be required. 

All of the testing on Maelee’s bladder and kidneys came back today.  She does have bladder damage and reflux from her bladder to kidneys.  This will be treated with medications and catheterization.  These are issues that we anticipated with her paralysis.  These issues can be managed at home and prayerfully will resolve.

Maelee is still not drinking at all since Tuesday and eating very little.  She needs to eat and drink for us to leave!  Tomorrow while she is sedated, she will receive a feeding tube. Pray she starts drinking!  Nothing has enticed her: straws, sippy cups, regular cups, bottles, milk, juice, water, Gatorade. The list goes on!

Infectious Disease stopped by.  Maelee will also have blood work drawn during her sedation tomorrow.

Maelee still has not had a bowel movement on her own.  The team is hoping that if she increases her nutrition, then she will eventually have a bowel movement.  If not, we will need to investigate further and implement a bowel management routine.

It was a busy day here today!  I may be forgetting something.  Thanks again for all the well wishes, texts and calls.  Thank you for understanding if I don’t answer.  Continue to pray for our sweet girl.  She has been through so much! For those wondering about discharge…”hopefully by the end of next week,” says our favorite resident.  Womp, womp!  Prayerfully sooner!!!

Friday 11/11/2016
This morning started with a trip to have Maelee’s CT scans.  The plan was to do these scans under sedation.  Unfortunately, Maelee’s IV was no longer working.  The team was not able to start a new IV.  Thankfully they were able to give her some medication through her nose to relax her.  She laid still to complete the scans.  Praise God!

When we returned to her room she had her NG tube placed while she was still loopy.  She is currently receiving medication through the NG tube to help clean out her bowels.  After her bowels are clear, they will begin to feed her through the tube since she is not eating or drinking for us.

There was still the problem that she needed to have an IV after it was blown this morning.  The team came back and was able to place an IV using ultrasound for guidance.  She is a very hard stick!  It was determined that a PICC line should be placed in order to have reliable access.  Shortly after the IV placement, Maelee was able to be sedated for the PICC line placement. 

During her procedure, neurosurgery stopped by to review the CT scans.  There are no gross abnormalities present that would explain Maelee’s paralysis.  As we have shared, the MRI is really the best tool to assess the brain.  Neurosurgery would like one more CT scan view for completeness, but they do not have any surgical concerns.  They have requested that GI be consulted.  Add another specialty to the list!

This afternoon Maelee has been sleeping.  She is completely off her schedule because of jet lag and hospital life.  Last night we had play time from 1am-430am.  Girlie needs to get on US time!

Thanks again for praying and checking in!

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Update coming

Maelee is still in the hospital. I cannot get internet access on our laptop, so a thorough update will have to wait. There is a lot going on with a lot of testing and consultations.  Please keep praying. Details to follow when I can get my laptop to post.

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Admitted

Maelee has been admitted to the hospital. We are not sure how long we'll  be here. We appreciate any prayers. We will keep you posted.

Sunday, November 6, 2016

Day 17 - We are home!

After 26+ hours of travel, we are home!  It feels so good to be back at our "brown house" as Hannah calls it. The airport time was a bit rough and embarrassing with children fighting, but the flights overall went well.  It is still amazing how fast a little electronic screen on the seat back can stop the bickering and how fast it starts again once the electronics are gone.

When we finally got to the Peoria airport at 10PM, we were surprised and grateful to have friends greet us there.  Thank you to Chuck Boysen and the Marshall Family for your love and support and physical presence.  It certainly made us feel loved and helped make Maelee's entrance into Peoria a celebration.

We had even more surprises when we got home.  We honestly cannot even being to express the depth of our gratitude for the love showered on us by our church family.  It is so humbling it brought tears to our eyes.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!  Thank you for house watching, getting mail, feeding our fish, mowing the yard, raking leaves, providing frozen meals, stocking our fridge with groceries, decorating our house with balloons, flowers, signs, treats, and for inspecting our broken washing machine while we were away!  WOW!!!  Thank you especially to the Shearer family, Ginger Burke, Barry Heisey, Kyle Scholl, and for anyone else who blessed us in some way.  We are blown away!  THANK YOU!

Closing thought ... Matt asked Nathan tonight what he thought about the remarkable generosity that God's family had provided to us.  He remarked, "it's kind of like having servants."  Maybe not the best answer, but he definitely recognized that others had ministered directly into our family.  We are hopeful that this night will stick in our kids heads so that when they are called to serve they will be prepared and eager.  Thank you again for serving us so we could go serve in China.

Gal 5:13 - For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.



Our our way to the airport

Flight 6: Shanghai to Detroit

Flight 7: Detroit to Peoria


The result of 24+ hours of travel




Mowed yard and raked leaves!!  Thank you!!

So many surprises at home!  Thank you!!